We all made sure to get a good night’s sleep in anticipation for the start of the 3-day intense Your Way experience. From the three choices, Sasha and Darya chose to attend the outdoor experience, Sela to the Arts and Culture, and the third untouched option was entrepreneurship.
Sunday, March 31
10:25
After a late night back from our exciting weekend in Eilat, we were very grateful for the late wakeup time for our brunch with a representative from Yavneh. While it’s not the summer camp we all know and love in New Hampshire, the representative was an alumnus of this camp. His organization helps foster Jewish leaders on college campuses across the US. We started off learning about what it means to be a leader and the added characteristics of a Jewish leader. We were then introduced to a very exciting fellowship offered by Yavneh where we would be given the tools and resources to lead Jewish life on our given campuses. As first year students, we would be able to organize events and have access to mentors to curate the Jewish life we desire as our first step as Jewish individuals. I am sure many of our students will be Yavneh Fellows, especially with the application shortcut we received for being part of the brunch!
13:16
Right about now, we found ourselves fascinated by Lt. Col. Avi Shalev’s presentation. He started off by introducing himself and his background. After serving 24 years in the IDF Intelligence Division and Government Activities in the Territories, a unit operating in Judea and Samaria and Gaza, he attended The Al-Qasemi Academic College of Education in Haifa. Not only was he the only Jew and man in his class, he was also the very first Jew to ever enroll in the Islamic college.
To document his time in the class, he wrote the book, The Only Jew In The Room: Searching For Understanding In An Arab Islamic College. Rather than learning about Arab culture in an institution somewhere in Europe, he was able to experience the culture first hand, which he believes gave him a much better understanding of the people. He then went on to give us very interesting incites into Israel’s intelligence failures on October 7. He gave two main points that stuck with us. The first was that Hamas was able to beat us because of our sophistication. Instead of trying to top us, their tactics were simple. The second, and arguably more interesting, point was that Israel’s intelligence failed because of the lack of understanding of Arab culture. During his time in the Islamic college, he learned the importance of poetry for Arabs. He claimed that when Arabs speak their truth, they say it out loud. To Israel, this seems outrageous, which is why we missed a crucial clue.
He explained that Ramadan TV series are a staple of a Muslim family’s Iftar routine, a modern replacement of poetry. The 2022 Ramadan series The Fist of Freemen was given special awards by Yahya Sinwar, who praised the show and said it would be emulated by Hamas. The craziest part was that the show nearly depicted the atrocities carried out by Hamas on October 7. Shalev showed us the great importance of understanding cultures through experience and brought light to a detrimental flaw within Israel’s intelligence.
17:32
An exciting end to a relaxed day was the cake baking contest. We felt like we were on our grade’s favorite show, Kids Baking Championship. We were first separated into groups: Sela and Darya in one, and Sasha in another. Each group was given 50 NIS to buy supplies other than the basics provided. We ran to the nearest grocery store, raiding the shelves with the ingredients we needed. Once we were back, we were off to the races. We followed the recipes we found online. We baked our cakes and decorated them. Although it sounds simple, our teams ran into many obstacles. Sela and Darya’s cake came out raw in the middle, so changes were made to accommodate the unexpected. Regardless, they were still able to present a beautiful red- and black-layered cake in honor of Ari Werbin-Gradel’s little brother’s 10th birthday (Happy Belated Birthday!!). Sasha's team, on the other hand, faced only minor snags, such as picking up sour cream and yeast instead of milk and baking soda—ingredients that definitely aren't crucial for baking, so it was totally okay! In the end, neither of our cakes won, but we had a lot of fun. Needless to say, we all came to the consensus that none of us are cut out to be on Cake Boss.
A side-by-side comparison of Sela’s/Darya’s cake and Sasha’s cake. Text in the infamous groupchat which you think is best.
We all made sure to get a good night’s sleep in anticipation for the start of the 3-day intense Your Way experience. From the three choices, Sasha and Darya chose to attend the outdoor experience, Sela to the Arts and Culture, and the third untouched option was entrepreneurship (shoutout to Gili for the female representation!).
Monday, April 1
11:42
As Darya and Sasha ventured into the outdoors for 3 days, their first task was traveling to Etgarim headquarters, an organization based in leading workshops to improve the quality of life and health of people with and without disabilities using tools from the world of sport. There, they had the honor of listening to employee Nati Bruner’s incredible life story. From riding motorcycles to getting flesh eating bacteria to going to the Olympics twice all while having three children, Nati has truly been through it all.
After hearing Nati's whirlwind of a life story, he spurred us all on to embrace the challenge and hop on tandem bikes for an exhilarating ride. The task was quite daunting, but not impossible! With some adjusting, (our eager shorter companions sadly physically could not reach the ground in the front seat) we set off for our beautiful ride to the beach and back. No injuries reported - success! After our relaxing bike ride, we ate a light lunch in preparation of our highly anticipated “physical escape room,” which we had been warned to not have a full stomach going in. In hindsight, we definitely could have eaten lunch later, even a large one, and still been completely fine in the escape room, but it was fun nonetheless!
11:09
On the first day of the Your Way experience, Sela was a part of the arts and culture group and the group took a trip to Tel Aviv. In the morning, the group participated in a silent disco throughout the streets of Tel Aviv. They put on headphones, turned up the funky music, and showed off their best dance moves to all the people who they passed by throughout their morning. The instructor had the group play games, sing to one another, and she taught them a few pieces of history throughout the tour. The ultimate goal of this activity wasn’t for the group to just dance and have fun, rather it was for us to spread joy to the greater community during this time of hardship. Everybody had a great time dancing and singing, and even though they all looked a bit goofy, everyone got into it and made an impact on others' day.
13:37
Sela and the arts and culture group went on a food tour through Shuk HaCarmel. Three of the stops were Yeminite food and the other three were classic Israeli street food. The first stop was a place where a woman named Irit prepared for us her famous bread wrapped with a fried egg more commonly referred to as “lachuch”. She was so excited to meet us and share a little part of her culture with us and we will never forget our experience with her. Afterwards, we took two quick pit stops, first at a spice store, and second at a cookie stand. The radiant smell of the spices and the sweet taste of the cookies got us even more excited for the rest of the tour. Our fourth stop was at Shlomo and Doron Chickpea Art, where we indulged in five different types of hummus bowls. The purpose of this particular hummus place is to expand the idea of hummus past just a classic spread with olive oil and spices to incorporate a variety of other cultures around the world. We got to try a Mexican inspired hummus, a curry flavored hummus, a falafel, a hummus with meat, and one with sauteed onions and radishes. We devoured these bowls in less than 10 minutes and walked away feeling more than satisfied. However, the tour was not over and we went to a popular falafel stand right in the center of the shuk. Each one of us got a quarter of falafel and pita and the option to have another quarter of pita with either meat, chicken, cauliflower, or another falafel. Sela decided to take a risk and try the cauliflower option and she did not regret her decision. The last stop on the food tour was an ice cream place in the fabric district of the shuk which was a necessity after all the savory food and hot sun we were absorbing all day.
15:34
Right now, Sasha and Darya were deep in concentration as they went traversing the escape room. But it’s not the escape room you would expect…it was one that required helmets and knee pads. With obstacle courses and memory tests to escape a total of 7 rooms, Darya’s team demolished all the four other teams, including Sasha’s, which she rubs in her face. We all had a great time using our speed, intelligence, strength, and teamwork skills. We highly recommend TLV 2048!!
15:48
The last stop on Monday for Sela and the arts and culture group was a graffiti tour around the southern neighborhoods in Tel Aviv. We walked around and made a few different stops to look at different pieces while our teacher Tom told us different connections he had to the graffiti and the stories behind them. We learned about Inbar Haiman, a famous graffiti artist who goes by the name “Pink”, who was taken hostage on October 7. It became a trend for other graffiti artists in Israel to put the tag line “FreePink” on almost every building throughout the country. However, it was revealed in December that Pink was killed and a new trend “RIP Pink” surfaced to continue her legacy and remember all that her graffiti represented in Israel. After learning about Pink’s impact on the greater Israeli society, Tom told us a personal story and how it inspired him to start using his graffiti to try and raise awareness about different types of cancer. His story and impact on his community are truly inspiring and we are so grateful to have heard his story and how graffiti isn’t just something people do for fun, but people can use it in ways that influence their immediate community and beyond.
Tuesday, April 2
9:35
Once again, Sasha and Darya are told to eat breakfast early and make sure it’s light, as they’re about to embark on a crazy intense Krav Maga lesson that will truly whip their butts. Of course, the hour and a half sparring session turned out to be a pretty laid back and fun lesson of basic Krav Maga skills - but still from famed judoka and highly trained sensei Yona Melnik. We learned how to protect ourselves from attackers and escape dangerous situations, such as chokeholds, stabbings, and grabbings. All extremely useful skills that we practice every night now that we hopefully never have to use!
9:59
The morning of the second day of the Your Way experience, Tom arranged for the arts and culture group to have an author named Roy Michael Shefy come speak to us about his extraordinary writing and how his books reach a different, less targeted audience, the portion of the population that typically doesn’t read books. He explained to us that throughout his childhood, his teachers thought there was something wrong with him because he didn’t do any of his work and would never pay attention in class, so everyone automatically thought he was stupid. However, it wasn’t until Roy was in fifth grade that he took an IQ test and scored on a genius level, proving everyone wrong. Unfortunately, that didn’t change anything in his habits as a student as he didn’t finish high school and just found no interest in learning. This is where Roy’s inspiration to write a book for those who don’t typically read books came from. Having not been a studious person himself, he thought it was important to show the world that you don’t need to be good at reading and writing to write a book, anyone can do it. Now Roy is a best selling author who inspires people with his unique journey and paves the way for literature to become a more diverse industry that caters to many different demographics.
13:38
Following Sasha and Darya’s early morning Krav Maga session, the girls headed out to climb Mount Carmel, a beautiful hike located in the north.
While hiking, we got to see and learn about different types of Israeli ecosystems, and during lunch we played an Israeli take on ring around the rosie- but this version took far more effort and hurt much more. After lunch, we got back on the trail and bumped into what seemed like a thousand other groups of Israeli kids hiking. The words “Where are you from,” and מאיפה אתם?״” followed us around for kilometers (we have adopted the metric system’s superiority).
Finally, when we thought we had reached the end of our hike, our tour educator Danny surprises us with a rappelling session! Who knew falling off a cliff could be so fun!
When everyone finished rappelling, going to the bathroom, and going back for everything they forgot, we finally headed to our last destination on Mount Carmel - The Carmel Fire Memorial - to learn a little history. The Carmel Fire Memorial is a monument that marks the “Carmel Disaster” (אסון הכרמל) which took place on December 2, 2010. This was the biggest forest fire ever in Israel. The fire caused 17,000 people to be evacuated from their homes and claimed 44 lives.
And after a lot of debate in Darya and Sasha’s group, a consensus was reached to go to aqueduct beach in Caesarea- just for 10 minutes.
13:38
Sela alongside the rest of the arts and culture group arrived at a mall in Herzliya where they participated in an Air Force flight simulation at the Squadron Israel. Upon arrival, we checked in, put on our uniforms, took some photos, and had an introduction with our guide for the simulation.
We learned how to operate the simulation of an F-16 airplane and discussed the importance of the air force in the IDF. We were then able to participate in our first flight and the goal was to fly through as many green, yellow, or red shapes as possible in order to collect more points. The simulation was like nothing anyone had ever seen because we were in the pilot’s chair, locked in position, where the only things visible were the screen around us and the items in the cockpit that allowed us to fly the plane. Sela and Reut Skromne were sent to the same station and Sela went first, collecting a total of 500 points with only one crash. After everyone had completed their first flight, we all gathered with our instructor to watch our flights and assess what went wrong in our first flight and how we can do better for our second flight. It was then time to take to the sky again and this time Sela collected 1,075 points and two crashes, which greatly exceeded her expectations. To close out our time at the Squadron, we had the privilege to talk to Neri, a retired Israeli Air Force Captain and co-founder of The Squadron Israel, where he shared with us his experience serving in the Air Force and what his life was like. The group was full of questions for Neri and were eager to hear about any, if not all, of his stories from his time serving. We are so grateful to have had the opportunity to talk with Neri and hear his many words of wisdom as well as bits and pieces of his incredible journey.
16:25
The final activity for the arts and culture group on day two of the Your Way experience was a program with the Mayumana drum group. We learned how to step, keep rhythm, play drums on buckets, and use broomsticks as percussion instruments. The two instructors prepared two performances for us in order to demonstrate all that the Mayumana group represents. Their goal is to teach the community how to use their body and basic tools to make music rather than relying on technology or expensive equipment. The group played many different games, but the ultimate challenge was when we were split into two groups and we compiled our own performances with different instruments we had used to compete against each other. Sela’s group created a routine using drum sticks and broomsticks while the other group used a bucket and drum sticks. Needless to say, we all walked out of there winners because we were the best group Mayumana had ever seen.
Wednesday, April 3
12:14
On the final day of the Your Way Experience, Sasha and Darya got to be IDF soldiers for a day. We drove to the Bet Shemen forest expecting to learn about navigation tactics, but poisonous caterpillars got in the way of that. Instead, we shifted to learning basic acronyms for military signals. We learned how to properly form lines, escape grenades, and how to stealthily sneak up on an assailant. A fan favorite of the day was our pistol training, where we learned how to draw fake guns, shoot them, and move with them. We also got a lesson on camouflage and how to correctly apply face paint to truly blend into your surroundings. Some people’s painting skills were a little too good and almost got left behind, but ultimately everyone made it to the next activity. Throughout the entire day we also hiked to practice our new found skills and test our group chemistry, with people taking charge of leading our marches and others walking on thin tight ropes everyone held. We ended the day off with a quick stop to the gas station for some refreshing ice cream - some people with their camouflage still on! During our three days in the wild with Dani, we not only mastered defensive and survival tactics but also shed our fear of getting dirty, fully embracing the hands-on experience. We couldn’t be more grateful to all of our amazing speakers, instructors, and madrichim who made this all happen!!
12:37
For the last day of the Your Way experience, the arts and culture group hopped on a bus to go to a moshav in Modi’in to spray paint the welcome entrance! We set up a little rest area near the wall where we were spray painting, settled in, and started sketching our ideas. Tom assigned everyone a spot on the wall and we began sketching our designs with chalk. Sela had the idea to create a tree of life with fruit at the top because it is a very important symbol to her and represents one of her biggest values, family. After sketching our designs, we began the spray painting process, but not without a tutorial from Tom on how to do different strokes and designs. After countless hours of work and a relaxing lunch break, the group finally finished their designs and we went around to each section of the wall to take group and individual photos. At the last minute, Sela decided to incorporate a mini volleyball and buckeye at the bottom of her tree to add a bit more character to the tree.
There was no better way to finish off the past three days of our arts and culture experience and we couldn’t be more grateful to Tom for organizing such amazing and fun activities for us! We can say in full confidence that we are more artistic and cultured than when we started the trip!
19:52
After all of our long days, everyone came together in the beit knesset for the concert of music producer and singer/songwriter Udi Kraus. Listening to Udi’s beautiful music and singing Shalom Eilechemem together was a relaxing way to end our long days of spray painting and training.
Thursday, April 4
10:24
A couple hours ago we arrived at JNF's campus in Jerusalem. Awaiting us was an auditorium filled with Jews from all over the world. There were two main groups: diaspora Jews in high school on trips similar to our own and Israelis in machinot. The purpose of the convention was to connect with other Jews and talk about combating antisemitism and anti Zionism in honor of Diaspora Week.
We found ourselves discussing with kids from our partner mechina, The Upper Galilee Leadership Academy, about the differences between Jews in Israel and the diaspora. We got to know them better but were also exposed to their unique perceptions of Judaism in the diaspora. After meeting them, we are very excited to spend time with them during our next Shabbat. Stay tuned for that Shabbat!
13:47
Us girls were in the auditorium exercising our vocals. Although our alto and soprano parts sounded incomplete, the final result was surprisingly beautiful. We were practicing Shlomo Artzi’s תתארו לכם. We learned the words and our different parts. Later when the boys joined in and we recorded the song, we sang a beautiful arrangement of the song with Jews from all over the world. We felt accomplished. We were soon on our way back home, but we were not soon home. If only we knew the traffic that awaited us. Not only was the bus ride back from Jerusalem doubled in length, but it was nauseating to say the least.
20:11
By the time we found ourselves recovered from the seemingly endless bus ride, Sasha found herself quarantined while Sela and Darya ordered some smoothie bowls to finish off the night. Darya had a last minute overnight at her Saba and Savta to start the open weekend early. We all had a very exciting week and we were looking forward to the relaxing free weekend ahead.
April 5 and 6 (Open Weekend)
Darya spent the weekend at her aunt and uncle’s house in the south. She had a great time being with her family, playing board games, spending time at the beach, cooking, and eating.
Sela spent Friday in Ra’anana with Yaeli Greenblum and they went to the park for the day and soaked up the sunshine before heading into a restful Shabbat. Sela spent Shabbat dinner with her family friends in Herzliya and got to experience what a Friday night Shabbat is like in Israel. After a much needed long night of sleep, Sela spent the morning and early afternoon at the beach with her friend and practiced her Hebrew while watching people play soccer on the beach. To round off the open weekend, Sela and her friend chilled out and watched TV together before returning to campus.
Sasha actually spent this weekend on campus! After an eventful Thursday night spent quarantining after having a fever, Sasha got to wake up late Friday morning and took a shower alone for the first time in ages. Then she spent pretty much the rest of the weekend just relaxing, soaking in the rare silence and beating everyone else who stayed behind in cards over, and over, and over again.
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